Having a Moment (Explicit Content)

Okay, let me say this real fast!!! And this is for men! The cocky on themselves men!!!

I am not the one you are going to walk all over! I am a little head strong but I'm not out of control and I do know God's order so please don't get that twisted! I am not the one that is going to tell you what you want to hear but rather, I'm the one that is going to tell you what it is you NEED to hear! I am the type that if I have to say something I am going to say it. Now, that does not mean I'm rude or what some people might say is 'ghetto', no that's not me! But, I know how to say what needs to be said with the least amount of offense made to a person's self esteem.

Men and women both have this relationship/marriage thing all screwed up. I am not going to put more blame on one over the other, no! Both are to blame, each men and women share both responsibility of this big screw up.

Saying has it that there are two things that are important to the structure of a man! And that's to make sure you stroke his ego and you stroke his d***! But, I'm confused, you have the chicks in the streets stroking your ego every minute of the hour filling your head with that flat out BS and you on your own d*** more than any woman could ever be!!! I know the song says 'Encourage yourself' but please don't screw your own self!!!

A Moment of Pondering:

An anointed, blessed and God filled person will always attract the masses! As the days slowly pass by, the vision becomes more clear! Things don't seem as confusing as the day before! I will lift up mine eyes to the hills, from which cometh my help. My help cometh from the Lord! The Lord that made Heaven & Earth! AMEN!

I'll show you, I'll Ignore you

"I'll show you! I'll ignore you."

Ahhh...the old silent treatment. We'll ignore and deprive them of our attention (love in expression) to get them to take notice of us. If they respond, they care. If they don't, they don't love you. (If you really loved me, you would respond with concern to my silence.) Maybe if you ignore them, they’ll see how important this “issue” is to you. Maybe they’ll see how hurt you are and not do what they did again. If you ignore them, maybe they’ll be nicer to you and extend themselves to bring you out of your silence. This will prove that they really love you.

Useful Ideas:

• Talk openly and honestly. Know the intent behind your words.
• Understand silence isn’t motivating, it only leads to lack of communication and confusion.

Misunderstood

Your eyes tell a story that your mouth won't tell.If one would just listen they could hear all the pain you felt as well as the joy you feel. It's like when I look into your eyes I can see your soul. When I look into your eyes they speak to my heart in a way that words cannot. It's like we've known one another once before. I wake up every morning and I find myself thinkin of you....All day and night, all I can do is think of you... The sound of your voice and any thought of you always puts a smile on my face...It's like nothin even matters to me, once your in my space.. My question to you is do you feel that I deserve to capture your heart? Is loving me your souls only goal? Will you allow me to embrace you and take all your pain away? Will you be my perfect imperfection? ;-) If your answer is yes than, Let me stimulate your body by first stimulating your mind...Let me set your mind free & your soul on fire like no one has ever done before... I accept you for who you are and what you've been thru...I wouldn't want to change anything about you because your experiences are what made you who you are today.

Something I found on the internet